Skip to main content

HEALTHY PAIN


Would you agree with me that continuous and instant pleasure is doing you more harm than good?

Would you accept that your comfort zone is actually a zone meant to restrict substantial progress in your life?

Just patiently read through this article to catch the palpable insight.

I call this article HEALTHY PAIN for a reason. You know, when we hear the word pain, we look for ways to skip it because it interprets an unpleasant and 'not-so' soothing feeling to us.

Nevertheless, the pain which I'm speaking of is the pain that brings out gold of potentials, diamonds of solutions in form of ideas and inventions.

Whatever that's so valuable will cost you a whole lot which endorse pain. Either through discipline of denying yourself pleasure or sacrificing what you should be enjoying now (present gratification). 

Say success in any endeavor, wealth, fame/power,  even the anointing; literally everything good in life has a price attached.

To be a successful person in your endeavor of specialty, you have to make sacrifices, have sleepless nights, soak yourself in studying and in developing yourself, even deny yourself some pleasures your contemporaries are presently enjoying in order to get what you want. 

Nothing in life comes cheap. Even Jesus says you have to deny yourself daily to successfully follow Him. (Luke 9:23)

There's always a price tag attached to good things of life. Even the good things of life (e.g. luxury) gotten through wrong means have to be gotten through pain. 

A scammer, internet fraudster or robber needs to stay up all night strategizing and implementing their moves to get what they want. Some even take risks.

These kind of people pass through their own fair share of pain in the "acquiring" journey. 

So, too much comfort will take you nowhere but through the street of complacency and dead end of an  unfulfilled life of which the aftermath effect is regrets.

Instant gratification, on the other hand will leave you with nothing but foolishness, misery and poverty in the future. Why? That's because you're only after the "now" and don't think of tomorrow.

Here's a quote I read from a motivational speaker and writer called Jim Rohn. It reads thus: "we must all suffer one of two pains: pains of discipline or pain of regret. The difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons

It's clear. You suffer the pain of regret more than the pain of discipline. Therefore, choose.

Becoming a successful student, business/career person, minister of the gospel, musician, artist, writer, entrepreneur, or whatever your field of endeavor may be, you have to strain yourself beyond the norm. To be excellent in your expertise or purpose pursuit, you have to go beyond the average; the normal modulus of operation in your course of action. 

You have to make up your mind to pay the price for the task no matter the pain because that's what get you there not by mere wishes. 

Furthermore, activities that scare or challenge you to wake up and act propels growth and development. Healthy pain toughens and brings out the very beauty of your potentials.

The Bible says, “He will sit as a refiner and purifier of silver; He will purify … and refine them like gold and silver.” (Proverbs 17:3). And that's exactly what God intends when He allows trials to enter your life. 

Well, that's out of context but just understand that.

Finally, I'll leave you with this quote: "Where training and discipline are concerned, short-term pain means long-term gain. (Myles Munroe).


Stay blessed.


Comments

Popular Post

HOW POSSIBLE IS PURITY IN A PERVERSE WORLD?

We live in a world where premarital sex, lust, and diverse sexual vices are thrown at us on the face. Sensual pictures, movies and music that promotes and instigates pornography, masturbation, lesbianism, homosexuality, adultery, rape, lust, etc are rampant, virtually everywhere. It takes advance discipline and utmost reverend for God to be able to resist it. When you access the internet, its there. When you read through some magazines, its there. What about the television compiled with various TV channels with different commercials, ads, movies, operas, shows, etc, it is in its abundance.  These days, almost everything we view promotes lust. Even ads; mere ads. Those that value their christian faith and purity can't even watch television in peace. You'll have to keep changing and switching channels to guide your eyes against scenes that defiles the mind. Even the streets are cluttered with immodestly dressed women and men. They are on every sidewalk and every corne...

HE WAITS FOR IT

I love that feeling I get when a person who seeks my downfall gets so disappointed as a result of his planned scheme against me being totally frustrated. I really do love it. It communicates that I can't be touched, harmed or disadvantaged by the enemy. It makes the fact about God being with me evident to me. I'm certain Jesus had that satisfactory feeling when He overcame the temptations the devil brought His way during His retreat in the wilderness. Imagine being highly tempted three times around the same time and all temptations are in sync with the desires of the flesh. However, Jesus overcame him with a simple tactics..." by the words of their testimony" ( Revelation   12:11).  Until tomorrow, this strategy is most relevant for overcoming any hurdle, challenge or temptation. How does this correlate with today's article; HE WAITS FOR IT? Luke speaks of a reality Jesus experienced and every Christian equally experiences.   See this: "Now when t...

AN EYE FOR AN EYE

An eye for an eye is no new idiom. You must have heard of it or use it yourself. Either way, that idiom is something a child of God should never use but apply a different approach to it. An eye for an eye is a language used by those who seek justice (a repay) of wrong(s) or evil done to him or her. But in as much as justice is good and in many cases approved even in scriptures, same scripture gave room for mercy and forgiveness.  Unfortunately, many christians take laws into their hands by "wanting their offenders eye for the eye taken from them". They want to equivalently retaliate for the pain, backstab, hate, gossip or any sort of evil done to them in other to satisfy that hurt. But this is contrary to what Jesus preached. Jesus taught two vital measures you should take for any wrong or mischief done against you.  Before i talk on these two keys, I'd love to reveal what the Holyspirit personally taught me from the book of Ephesians on this subject of reveng...

A GEN Z PROBLEM

You don't have to be surprised by today's blog title. I can assure you that there are challenges this generation are faced with that the previous generations didn't experience.  Just stay with me on this ride. In case you don't know what Gen Z is, GEN Z (Generation Z) is a term refered to individuals born between 1997 and 2012. It isn't really a professional term used to identify those born in those years but it was coined by few individuals. However, it's use gained wide spread around 2010 to 2015 particularly amongst marketers/advertizers, media outlets, researchers and youngsters especially in social media world. I said something about the previous generation known as the millennials (those born between 1981 to 1996) who didn't really face the problems of the 'Gen Z's. "What could it be? "  Simple, SOCIAL MEDIA PRESSURE. Prior to the 21st century (2000's), it is recorded that the world was already digitalized but the soci...

GOD IS COMMITTED TO YOUR SAFETY: An Experience

Last Sunday's service sparked in my memory an experience I had with a cultist few months back. The sermon, "THE HOLY SPIRIT AND HIS ANGELS OF PROSPERITY" by my mentor, Pastor Victor Akah cemented my belief in God's total protection, the ministry of His angels and the consciousness of their presence in my life. However, I want to show you by the spirit and my experience that God never fails to protect and deliver those who are His.  It was on a Saturday evening. The weather; beautiful, fit for evangelism. I walked a distance then followed a shortcut that would make my journey to the church hall easier before setting out for evangelism with brethren. It was round 4:30 pm.  As I walked into the street, getting closer to its end as to reach the express road, I heard a man whistle at me, " Hello, fine girl, stop". I thought it was just one of those guys by the road side that have nothing to tell a young girl but to ask for her name and number, so I ig...